A mistake is an action or judgement that is misguided or wrong. Living fully alive and in 'the light' means that we are able to DAILY confess what is 'our part' that remains out of integrity with Jesus, and what He asks of us. Living fully 'confessional' of what our sinful response has been, even to a very painful situation, has the AMAZING POWER to free us of bitterness, lies and fear. Confession gives us a huge 'first step' out from bondage in darkness, and into 'the light' of God's grace and mercy. Where there is confession, there is forgiveness. Where there is forgiveness, there is freedom and 'light.' And suddenly we are now open again to have a relationship wih God, ourselves, and others. Speak into ANY situation where there is conflict and TAKE some kind of responsibility. The confession you make will begin to restore a measure of peace, and brings God's 'light' in the situation.