Ephesians 4:29 – “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” |
Today when I was walking, I heard an unusual tapping noise above me. At the top of a light post I was passing under, I saw a woodpecker furiously pecking away at the plastic cover of a light bulb. My first thought was that is an inappropriate use of a beak. As I chuckled at that thought, I started realizing I have something in common with my feathered friend, for at times I could be accused of using my mouth inappropriately. How many times have I recklessly spoken without giving any thought to how my words might impact those listening?
I suspect the woodpecker eventually figured out his efforts this morning produced disappointing results. Despite his efforts, he probably only had a slightly dented piece of plastic and a whole lot of wasted time. Disappointing results are often reflective of what happens when I have tossed out hastily spoken words. This includes having both wasted lots of time, as well as having contributed to making a confusing or difficult situation even more difficult.
Today’s text helps me not to be a bird brain when it comes to the appropriate use of my mouth. That starts with before even opening my mouth, I should evaluate whether my words will be an encouragement and support to someone, or will they be a hindrance. Also, if I pray before speaking, I may find my words benefit not only the person to whom I’m directing my comments, but also to others who are listening.
Dear Heavenly Father, please forgive us when we have hastily spoken without considering how our words impact others. Help us remember for our words to be helpful to others, we need to seek your guidance before speaking. In the Strong Name of Jesus, Amen.
- Phyllis Hooten