| Matthew 18:21-22 – “Then Peter came and said to Him, “Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me and I forgive him? Up to seven times?” Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.” |
I’m not an athletic person – never have been, never will be. I went to a VERY small high school where the only cool kids were the athletes. I was mercilessly teased for years about my lack of abilities, and the fact that I was always the last one to be picked for a team in PE. Other talents such as music or a high IQ meant nothing to this group, and I harbored resentment for years.
Just a few years ago I was at a reunion and was introduced to the new wife of a former classmate. As we were getting to know each other, she asked if I ever participated in sports in school. On the other side of the table was one of my biggest tormentors, who rolled her eyes and made a hideous face. Instantly, I felt like I was 13 again with the old insecurities rushing back. I told my new friend that no, I did not play sports but found other ways to support my school by being in the pep band and playing at all the games. Then I looked back at my tormentor and realized that I was not mad anymore, and actually just felt pity for her that she still carried such resentment. My forgiveness towards her lifted a giant weight from my shoulders.
Prayer: Lord, please develop in me a more forgiving spirit. Help me to realize that harboring resentment is only hurting me, and that I am to forgive others just as you have forgiven me. Help me not to judge the motive of others through my earthly eyes but through your heavenly heart. Amen
– Betty Gossell
