The difference in anger and bitterness is a sunset.
Unresolved anger quickly morphs into something much more destructive. This is precisely why Paul urged the church at Ephesus, “…do not let the sun go down while you are still angry…” (Ephesians 4: 26, NIV)
There’s something about going to bed angry that wakes us up bitter. The loss of sleep is detrimental, but it’s far more dangerous than fatigue. In the next verse, Paul indicated that unresolved anger provides Satan direct access (Ephesians 4: 27, NIV).
Bitterness doesn’t just affect my feelings. It leads to my failings. It reshapes me, and not in a good way.
Bitterness controls my thoughts.
Bitterness steals my joy.
Bitterness clouds my perspective.
Bitterness damages my relationships.
Bitterness expedites my displeasure.
Bitterness deteriorates my health.
Bitterness runs my life.
As someone wisely noted, “Bitterness is like drinking a bottle of poison hoping that it hurts the other guy.”
Remarkably, there’s only one cure for bitterness—GRACE.
The Hebrews writer penned in Hebrews 12: 15, “See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many.” Bitterness’ roots run deep, its branches grow high, and its shadow reaches far and wide. Left unchecked, it blossoms until grace takes an ax to its roots.
At the end of every conflict stands a choice. Will I cling to hurt or offer hope? Forgiveness or revenge? Healing or resentment?
Grace is an unmerited truce. You know…kind of like what God did for you.
Grace may be a difficult pill to swallow, but it’s far better than the lingering aftertaste of bitterness.
So, my friend, don’t let your anger outlive a sunset. A sunrise with bitterness brings even more trouble. |
